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January 02 昨天收到了学生会的学姐的短信，几句话，不长，我却觉得备受鼓励啊！！！
嗯，还有很多东西要学，心态最重要。
还有事业部最后一次例会上老大提到的做事情要注意的几点
这个舞台很大，收获也会很丰富
等我忙了这一阵吧，做做计划
就像那句英文：find a moment to get away,contemplate and concentrate. December 31 The year 2006 The oncoming passing of another year.
Year 2006...
It`s the corner where I experienced too much that contributes to my growth and wisdom.
It involved the pains and tears that translate me into maturity.
It bore witness to the times when it was tough but i still hang in there,
the moments when i shared the delighted laughter with those guys,
the relief we felt when we unloaded the worries onto someone;then to certain extent
lifted the burdens on our shoulder,
and the dreams we dreamed together for the future.
I pulled myself through the college entrance exams,but for which,i was told, my life wouldn`t be "complete".
I went for the application.The graduation ceremony was going on when i was in Chengdu for the interview.So I missed it.
Then i was back.The last time the whole class met and went for the outing, tears clouded our eyes.That evening,at the crack of the dusk,when the lights lit up the city,we`d gotta get off the bus and waved goodbye.We were left no words,although at the bottom of our hearts lay the sincere wishes for someone there.Beyond speech.And at the moment, all feuds sunk,only frienship remained.
I stayed in the city ,worked as an TA in an English school and got the salary for my work for the first time.
Then i quit.I sat in the sun by the gate of my high school,suffering from the heat and thirst to sell the used books and my notes.I did earn a pile!And I did make some friends.
My cousin came.At the invitation of my classmates,we made a trip to Lijiang,then memory...
As planned,I left for Guangzhou almost the moment i was back in GY.Again missed a lot of get-togethers.
And in Guangzhou, i gave it straight to`em ,fancied some fancies.Finally,upon the night before my departure,the e-mail made it all clear.
Then,back in Gy for a week.Quite a few had left ,mainly those to be in Tsinghua U,so we failed to manage a meeting.
Time fled beneath .A week was too short.I spent the following days with my family.Again,i left
the city bag and baggage.But different this time,I was setting out on a new journey.
And in September,my classmates left one after another.
I began to love it here.Quite well.
This is all too much for one year.
I enjoyed it -to love,to break the ice ,to experience,to forgive and forget,to laugh and weep.
Anyway,joys counter sorrows.
This old year,would blaze ,peak ,fade and die before i knew it....
December 23 小资啊小资 和暖的午后，吃饱了，不想动，就在屋子里晃悠着，心里想着过去的，即将过去的，正在进行的和即将来临的一堆节日和考试。对面的美女来自西施的故乡，用玉指撩动着吉他的琴弦流动出一窜音符，闲适而轻盈，飞啊飞
昨天是冬至，明天是圣诞夜，再过几天又是元旦，这几天就过成了这副模样。
昨天晚上班级联欢集体去K歌，我麦霸了n首以后终于在11点因为生物钟的缘故熬不住了，在我旁边的同学们一齐“喜唰唰”的时候，我居然倒在沙发上睡着了，还被郭靖同志偷拍了几张睡觉的丑样，丢脸。他也真是，简直就是浪费人品~~~
今天早上一觉睡到太阳晒屁股，又奔到一教去考我那不好意思说出来的office考试。中午漫无目的的进了食堂，一不小心又饱食了一顿。。。人家都说这是食堂是“人的价格，猪的享受”，但以我最近的胃口来看，我貌似对这“猪的享受”也很满足。哦，明白了。我是在过猪的生活~~
美国的小女孩短信我晚上去参加她们的Christmas party,好奇阿好奇，期待啊期待。alcohol?dunno!!!
我的生活，是越来越小资啦，应该好好面壁反省一下。谁叫这是中国最小资的学校呢，唉~~~
December 17 funny stuff!!!Have a look at the words on the coat.Wow,like a map?
Ahha,it reminds me of Prison Break .
so,UC break???
UC&Fudan U.,but there`s an another way to put "UC F U" .hahha~~ December 15 The First-Year College Experience by Dave Berry Those of us who are college veterans will never forget our freshman year at college. Some of us may like to forget our freshman year, but in general it is a time filled with anticipation, some anxiety, and wonderful discoveries. College is a lot different than high school. You may decide to commute from your home to a local campus. Your freshman experience will definitely make an impression on you. Without doubt, though, the most dramatic freshman year is for those living away from home. What can you expect as you head off into the wonderful world of higher education? The first thing you'll notice is the workload. It will be heavier and more intense than you ever experienced before. The major challenges of college work are the large volume of reading, the short deadlines, and the writing, writing, writing. A related effect that can be brought on by the workload is doubt, frustration, and possibly loneliness. You'll be away from the comforts and friendships your home provided for you over the previous years. On some of those long, seemingly endless nights of studying and writing, it will be only natural for you to long for the good old days. Hang in there. These down periods will pass. Whatever you do, don't make major decisions about your major, your courses, or even your roommate during one of these blue periods. Things always look better in the morning. You'll be making a lot of new friends. Continue to be yourself. Don't strike a pose or play the role of someone you're not. Select your friends with the same care and patience you have always used. Believe it or not, your college friendships will be among the most satisfying and long-term of your life. It's always exciting to discover how wonderfully diverse college relationships can be. You'll also be on your own, your own boss (more or less) 24 hours a day. Be careful here. Don't go flying off the end of the pier. Enjoy your newfound freedom. Stay up until dawn talking about your ideals and ambitions with your dorm's regular bull session buddies. Sleep in until the afternoon on a light class day. Explore the local town or suburbs with one or two of your new friends. Remember, though, with freedom comes responsibility. Even though your parents won't be around to follow up on your loose ends, you shouldn't let things go completely. Just find your own style. You may even start to think about your future. Be on the lookout for role models. Maybe a certain professor is especially inspiring. Perhaps your school has some ground-breaking research going on. Be sensitive to your own gravity. If some area of study attracts you, find out all you can about it. It might be the beginning of your self-definition process. Going to college is as much about finding out who you really are as it is about getting that degree. 写了一点就上瘾了，这果然是惯性
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那不过是曾经的人与事，与现在或将来的时态都无关
又何必抓着不放，却仅仅只是为了证明那些支离破碎的回忆中存在自己的印记
忘却，是为了更好的前行
面对那些我无力改变的事实，我选择释怀
有的时候，怀念是一种沉重的负担
逝去的美好回不来，曾经的痛也变不了
有时候，过去是不需要任何色彩来修饰的。不过像博物馆里的文物，你可以说出它的年代国籍，却不一定要怀着爱憎的心情去观摩。
与其在怀念中暗自感伤东流的逝水，不如在忘却中珍惜现在身边的风景
我相信，一定可以。。。 好久都没写东西了，本来不想上来的，懒惰也需要惯性
没想到今天中午无意中闯进了学校的书阁，看到了一句评论刘墉的话,"他有一颗很热的心，一双很冷的眼，一双很勤的手，两条很忙的腿和一种很自由的心情。。。"
暂且不说这句话用在他身上是否确切，不过如此的生活状态也实为经典啊！！！
偶尔给心情放个小假，生活充满惊喜！！！
December 01 Every one is a brand Just back from the lecture given by Mr. Ramo,a profess. of Tsinghua U. and author of "Beijing consensus".
As Ramo puts it,every person is a brand , every nation is a brand and every nation is a brand.
Every brand has its essential values;to take Nike as an instance,it means "good shape and excercise". So when you consume Nike,you are not only consuming the commodity,but also take in its values.
Among these different brands, white brand is the most powerful brand both in individual orientation and international relationship-building.Only with a totally white brand can you see and understand the image,hope and aspiration that you project on it...That`s probably why "American dream" once steered a whole generation of Americans to dream to be what they wanted in the 1930s,whether it be a doctor or a Hollywood superstar.
Anyway,you decide yourself what you mean.
November 27 The day今天上来想不到有什么特别要写的，只是把音乐换掉了。
孙燕姿的《雨天》，让人容易产生些许哀伤的联想。。。
现在这首when you say nothing at all轻快的多，随着节奏摇晃着，就感觉进入了一种什么都不用想的纯自然状态。真好
上海的雨，终于暂时停下了。
但突然习惯了步行，一步步，鞋子有规律地和大地契合，很踏实。遂而干脆将自行车甩在了车棚里，大概明年翻春的时候它也已经锈逗得可以进博物馆了吧。随便它了，那辆破车爱怎么招怎么招。
10T的成绩出来了，广州的小朋友考了117，牛啊，前途无量。
Kathy好像有些郁闷，可能不是很理想吧。来上海吧，想她了都
感觉时间真快，半期才刚过，期末又要来了。这俩天忙着在图书馆里burn the daytime oil,以为已经刻苦得不行，结果遇见了无数个本系的人。
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大家都加油了 November 23 Thanksgiving--giving thanks今天是感恩节，有一些人是必须要谢的。
首先是家人吧，还有关心我的所有的叔叔阿姨，没有他们我觉得自己不可能长这么大的。
然后是我的朋友们，今天已经发了n多条短信谢了n多个人了，像高中的姐妹们，cc姐啦，欣欣啦还有f.c，可可啦，她们都曾经分享了我的快乐，分担了我的“周期性困惑”，鼓励我，安慰我，感觉真好。还有像我滴同桌，高中3年有2年半和这人坐一起，想想其中的一些经历真是有趣，不论是学业还是性格，这都是对偶影响很大的一个人，谢谢~~还有无私的给我讲了很多题目的舟舟啊，令狐，罩一撇阿，帮了我很多的阿，都是。。。
还要谢谢老李，成长的时候谁都要犯错的吧，这是一个很宽容的老师，教书也很好，所以要谢。还有我姓邓，那次给了本人去长春的机会，虽然没拿奖，但至少激发了我学数学的兴趣，那次回来以后考试好像就没低过吧。感谢元庆，这个老师已经把物理教到了出神入化的境界，虽然我经常问些白痴问题，他还是那么耐心地给我讲。
感谢Peter,我第一次工资的发放者。
感谢马，前两个星期听我说要考T,就二话不说帮忙在交大联系了个老乡，给我提供场地。虽然现在看是用不上了，但太感动了。
感谢Danny姐，和她认识真是缘分，高中后来能把英语学成那样，很大程度是因为她在我高一回学校时的那次的演讲激发了一个小女孩心里的热情，播下了一个美好的梦的种子，并使她为之而努力。从圣迪达斯冰淇淋店的会面到家中吃你自己煮的的面再到HK U. essay 的修改，真是个很好的学姐，祝福你啊。
还要谢谢我现在的roommies,善解人意，真觉得寝室温馨得像个家啊。
感谢缘分和友谊，让我在这里和如此多的人相遇。。。
Also,thank my competitors.But for you,I wouldn`t have hoped for the better or tried harder.
And those who once hurt me or something,you teach me to forgive and hold on my own.I actually have forgotten your names...
太多人要谢，感谢所有人吧。感恩的心，感谢有你。。。
晚上据说学校的球场上会点燃500支蜡烛庆祝，不过我有课。。。
November 21 大学大学，既要修学还要修身，贴一篇文章吧。
Taking the first step How will you know you can succeed at something if you don't give it a try? How will you know you can drag yourself out of the depths of your despair if you don't try? How do you know you won't get that new job if you don't apply? How do you know... Before becoming a success at anything, you must take that first step.
Humans need love. It is in the giving and receiving of love that we choose life. Participating in this fundamental exchange lies in our ability to trust others. Happiness is to be found along the way, not at the end of the road, for then the journey is over and it is too late. Today, this hour, this minute is the day, the hour, the minute for each of us to sense the fact that life is good, with all of its trials and troubles, and perhaps more interesting because of them. Setting aside special moments Over the years, I have noticed that it has become more and more difficult to set aside those special moments of the day when we can remove ourselves from the hectic, frenetic pace of everyday life. Yet finding time to get away, to reflect, to concentrate, or to just let the mind wander freely is important for our overall health. Studies have shown that reducing stress in daily life significantly reduces the risk of heart attacks or the need for heart surgery. Reflecting on Anger Another way of dealing with anger is to reflect on its results. We know very well that when we are angry, we do not see the truth clearly. As a result, we may commit many unwholesome actions. Our future life is determined by our intentional actions today, just as our present life is heir to our previous intentional behavior. Intentional actions committed under the influence of anger cannot lead to a happy future. The greatest power you possess for succeeding in life is your understanding that life gives you a fresh start any moment you choose to start fresh. You've only to test the truth of this fact about the newness of life to discover the incredible freedom that waits for you just behind it. Nothing that stood in your way even a heartbeat before stands there now in the same way. It's all new, even if you can't as yet see it that way. Finding Spiritual Guidance Look for spiritual guidance everywhere and at any time... Spiritual guidance is not restricted to one area, or one particular day, or one particular time of the day. While you may be more open to receiving your guidance in the quiet hours of the early morning, or the late night, your spiritual guidance is always present. It is present in books that you 'happen' to come across, articles you are attracted to reading, things you hear that when looked at from that perspective apply to your situation. Perhaps if we expected to receive spiritual guidance at each and every moment of our lives instead of simply in church on Sunday, or when we sit quietly in meditation, we would receive many more messages throughout the day. Emotions Have an Effect! Every emotion that surges or trickles through you causes a physical reaction somewhere in the body. A minor upset may take a couple of days to register as a headache or backache; a more vehement explosion of anger or hatred directed at someone could result in a terrible case of ulcers or colitis, because that emotion is pounding your body. But just as negative emotions have a negative effect on the body, so too do positive emotions have a positive effect. We are all teachers and students We are all teachers and students. You learn (hopefully) from the people in your life, and they have the opportunity to learn from you as well. We are all 'in the same boat' and if we start learning from each other and sharing what we have learned with others, perhaps we can get to where we're going faster. Sometimes we learn from people's mistakes, sometimes from their examples, but always we have the opportunity to look around us and see 'little mirrors' of ourselves.
秋游回来了，有话要说秋游回来了，有一种神清气爽的感觉，久违了。也许吧，旅游真的能给生活注入活力，“仁者乐山，智者乐水”，这一次去了一个有山有水的地方，那我岂不是既有仁者的宽广又有智者的。。。。了吗？好了，停止自恋，不然等会可能要被扁咯~~哈哈哈
这一段时间似乎真的经历了太多，好在该过去的终于都过去了吧，突然变得很平静。不过是一场风雨，让人明白了成长的苦痛与必须的代价，并不可怕，因为我学到了许多。做人是要向前看de，我知道，我正在长大。
Luckily,the truth finally dawned on me,although I am seemingly the last person to be informed about it.And at least,I did not pay the price for nothing.I know it`s just a matter of transfer in our role ,I`ll just let go of the bygones and usher in a new day.JUST,as people name it,"Growing pains" November 15 哇~这个星期学校里貌似是来了一个又一个DI牛人，昨天是意大利的副总理来开论坛，明天耶鲁的校长还要来作报告。不过说到这个Levin先生，还真是要感谢FACES-Fudan,不但拿到了今年秋季的活动主办权，还成功地说服了Levin来中国，狂赞~~
另外，本人终于买了digital camera了，特别鸣谢陪同人员三三同学，辛苦啦
November 12 男生节？女生节？清华的同学说今天是什么.....男生节？？？他们系居然还专门搞了活动庆祝，有这样的节日么？那女生节呢？
我猜测若有，这样的节日也动机不纯....哼哼
就好比学校光棍节前夜的舞会，说是专为光棍而开，其实还不是想帮助他们告别单身~
哎呀，感冒了，好难受  November 11 another weekend!oops,what a big washday!
最近学校边上的书店在卖特价书，3折哦~今天周末，终于有时间可以进去掏掏了。买到了一本《宋词经典》，拿回去，roommie吓了一大跳，说是没想到我居然会买这么文学的书，而且居然可以连续看一个小时，欲倒状。。。
嘿嘿，这样的事在我高中时候倒是决不可能发生滴。谁叫选课系统不给面子，把本人从人文类的核心课里成功地剔出来咯。搞得我这个理科生连核心课都要上 "物理学与世界进步“，555
好啦，词性大发中。。。引用一句：
红叶黄花秋意晚 ，千里念行客。飞云过尽，归鸿无信，...
下句就不说了，因为今天收到了远方的邮件，广州的老姐，还有。。PK U.的同学的，被人挂念是幸福滴，hahaha
不过上海的秋天是没有红叶的，但是看法国梧桐的叶子随风飘了一地，还是很美。 November 10 hohoho,本人突然决定把搏客给开开了。
没办法，高中毕业了，进了大学，曾经并肩奋战的朋友都已经各奔东西。远方滴人们哪，你们想我的时候就看看偶的搏吧，可以知道我最近在干嘛。
放在这里的照片都是暑假的啦，要看我来fudan以后的照片？等我过两天买了数码相机哈。
明天是11月11号，光棍节哈哈哈...不管是不是光棍，愿我的朋友们都快乐哈~~ |
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